Saturday, June 27, 2009

Dance To The Last


Yet another birthday looms large on the horizon, and, my inner circle is abuzz with questions.
About celebration plans, wish lists and the special gifts that will come my way.
About the countdown to the larger than life '40' milestone, which now hangs over my neck like the sword of Damocles.
And, above all, if I intended to continue allowing the irrepressible child in my heart to manifest itself in my personality...

Most, I am afraid, are a little disappointed by my vague responses and perhaps, more so by my nonchalance about the impending event.

As the questions continue to stream in, I answer them as best as I can. All the while, wondering if the listener has sensed that, at this moment, my birthday plans are the least of my concerns.

This is not to say that I am against birthdays or anniversaries or celebrations in general.
Or, that I expect the rest of the world to slave their fingers to the bone, in making it a special day for me.

What does not appeal to me is the element of contrivance which prior planning brings to these special days.
I would rather go with the flow and take each moment as it comes.

Over the past many years, what made every birthday special was the love and warmth that I was cocooned in.

I love the fact that people care enough to remember, to call, or better still, to drop by for a drink and a giggle.

I am always touched when they stretch that extra mile, to do something that warms me to the cockles of my heart.

And I enjoy the sense of anticipation a beautifully packaged gift offers me.
The excitement of discovery as I rip it open.
It doesn't matter what is inside.
It could be a string of cheap beads or a ridiculously expensive solitaire.
For me, what matters is the element of surprise, the excitement of the moment and the warmth of being loved.

So inevitably, year after year, when friends ask me how I plan to celebrate my birthday or what I have asked for by way of gifts, my answer always is none what so ever.

I look forward to seeing what the day brings my way..the fun, the spontaneity, the discovery and the savouring of the emotions.

For me, this is what life is all about.
And I think I will carry this passion for life, with all its good and bad, right to my grave.

People tell me that everything slows down with age, except the time it takes for an utterly sinful wedge of warm gooey chocolate walnut brownie to reach your hips.

I disagree.

Age does not bring wisdom...Life and its many experiences does that!!!

At 15,I thought 20 was the Golden Age, and just couldn't wait to hit the magic number.
Unfortunately for me, life started at a snail's pace.
By 25, I was a little panicked because I thought I would be semi senile by the time I hit 30 and was haunted by visions of myself rocking away aimlessly on the porch of a geriatric care center.

But then, life in the 30s lane have proved to be incredibly exciting.
Probably because I have shed a lot of inhibitions, don't worry over much about looking like a fool and laugh easily when I do.
And, I am not afraid to demand love, express sorrow and more importantly, eliminate the weeds in my garden of life.

I find myself increasingly open to experimentation and new experiences.
So much so that on my 36th birthday, the only thought in my mind is that if the 30s are so incredibly exciting, then, what do the 40s and 50s hold in store for me?

Would I dare go skinny dipping in the moonlight...Climb a mountain...Tend a raucous bar in true coyote style...or swim with the dolphins in the deep blue ocean...
Would my dream of being a renowned writer come true?
Would my vision of bringing love and hope into the lives of abused children translate into reality?
Who knows?

For all I know, I may be skydiving at 60 or even doing the salsa at the ripe old age of 70.
Because in my heart I believe that you don't stop dancing because of age.
You grow old only because you stopped dancing.




Note: Reproduced from www.soul-talkin.blogspot.com with minor variations

11 comments:

Abhilash Suryan said...

Happy Birthday, have a blast :-)

magicalsummer said...

age is all in the mind - like you, the 30s is the most exciting decade of my life yet, and i can't wait for the 40s. am sure yours will be a blast, enjoy! and happy birthday, when it arrives :)

The Mad Alpha Moggie said...

Thank you Abhilash & Magical Summer..
I wrote this piece last year on another blog...and like most of my writing, it has not lost relevance with time...
:)

The Survivor said...

I liked the way you have put it in words :)

One would feel young, as long as they are young at heart. When is the big day coming up?

The Mad Alpha Moggie said...

Thank you Survivor.
The big day has come and gone...:) :)

JaY said...

Wish you a Belated Happy Birthday.

The Mad Alpha Moggie said...

Thank you very much...
This is actually an old post...I wrote it last year, but the sentiments have not change one bit!!!
:)

Arch said...

Happy Birthday/week (?) moggie!!

Lovely post!! Obviously timeless! ;)

writerzblock said...

Hey, that was a Brilliant post! Happy Birthday, cyber-buddy :-)

The Mad Alpha Moggie said...

Arch, Pal...My blog pals...thank you...
:)

Ganga Dhanesh said...

Love the last line! Hi Rekz....it's good to b back....lovely posts, as usual :)